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Stoic philosophy
Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.
Meditations, Book 10, §16, c. 170–180 AD
Translated by Gregory Hays · Stoic philosophy
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Among the most direct lines in all of the Meditations, Marcus Aurelius wrote this to himself at the height of his power as Emperor. It is a rebuke of philosophy as abstract debate and a call to philosophy as daily practice.

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