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Not to feel exasperated, or defeated, or despondent because your days aren't packed with wise and moral actions. But to get back up when you fail, to celebrate behaving like a human—however imperfectly—and fully embrace the pursuit that you've embarked on.
Meditations, Book V, Section 9 (Gregory Hays trans.)
Translated by Gregory Hays · Stoic philosophy
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Marcus Aurelius wrote this as a private note to himself — a man who held himself to nearly impossible standards and failed to meet them, regularly, like every human being does. The Meditations are full of moments where he catches himself doing the thing he told himself not to do.

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