“Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.”
This is one of the most misread verses in Proverbs — and one of the most honest. The 'rod' in ancient Israel was not primarily a tool of punishment. It was the shepherd's rod: used to guide, to correct a wandering sheep, to prevent the animal from going somewhere dangerous.
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