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Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.
Proverbs 16:32, ESV
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What this means, and why it matters to a father

In ancient Israel, a man who took a city in battle was the highest form of warrior — a figure of national legend. Solomon places a different man above him: the one who governs his own anger. The comparison is intentional.

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