“There are several kinds of love. One is a selfish, mean, grasping, egotistical thing which uses love for self-importance. The other is an outpouring of everything good in you—of kindness and consideration and respect—not only the social respect of manners but the greater respect which is recognition of another person as unique and valuable. The second can release in you strength, and courage and goodness and even wisdom you didn't know you had.”
In this landmark letter, Steinbeck distinguishes self-serving love from genuine love—the kind that draws out the best in the person who gives it, not just the one who receives it.
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