“To be loved, baby, hard, at once, and forever, to strengthen you against the loveless world... you must survive because we love you, and for the sake of your children and your children's children.”
Baldwin published this letter to his nephew James in The Progressive in January 1962, and it opens The Fire Next Time. Written on the centennial of the Emancipation Proclamation, the letter is an act of fierce love — a man telling a young person that they are loved hard and permanently, as armor against a world that will try to convince them otherwise.
There is more to this one. The full context — the events behind the words, what the author was living through, and how it applies to the specific situations of fatherhood — is in the app under Deeper Understanding.
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