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The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this may be incapable of morality.
Notes on the House of Bondage, The Nation (November 1, 1980), 1980
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James Baldwin published this in The Nation in November 1980, writing about the collective moral responsibility adults carry toward all children — not just their own. He was 56 years old, having spent a lifetime observing what happens to children when adults treat them as property to be divided rather than lives to be protected.

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