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The family is romantic because it is arbitrary. It is romantic because it is there.
Heretics, chapter XIV ("On Certain Modern Writers and the Institution of the Family"), 1905
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Published in 1905 as a collection of essays critiquing contemporary thinkers, Heretics contains Chesterton's most concise defense of the family. His argument is paradoxical: the unchosen, arbitrary nature of family — these specific people, not selected by preference — is precisely what makes it the great adventure.

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