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Slavery does away with fathers, as it does away with families.
My Bondage and My Freedom (1855), Chapter 3: Parentage, 1855
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Douglass wrote this in My Bondage and My Freedom, describing his own father — a white man he was never allowed to know, a presence always shrouded in mystery, a relationship that the institution of slavery made legally and practically impossible. He did not write it with sentiment.

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