“Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in one word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions.”
Epictetus was born a slave in the Roman Empire and became one of history's most influential philosophers. The Enchiridion — meaning 'handbook' — was compiled by his student Arrian from lecture notes around 125 AD.
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