“The prosecution of learning may be compared to what may happen in raising a mound. If there want but one basket of earth to complete the work, and I stop, the stopping is my own work.”
The mound image in Book IX is among Confucius's most practical teachings: quitting is always your own choice, not the difficulty's fault. If you stop one basket short of finishing, the undone mound is not the world's work — it is yours.
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