“At fifteen my heart was set on learning; at thirty I stood firm; at forty I had no more doubts; at fifty I knew the will of heaven; at sixty my ear was obedient; at seventy I could follow my heart's desire without overstepping the boundaries of what was right.”
This autobiographical reflection from Confucius is one of the most honest accounts of moral development in any philosophical tradition. He is describing a lifetime of formation — the stages of becoming a person who does not have to fight himself to do what is right, because his desires have finally aligned with wisdom.
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