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A youth is to be regarded with respect. How do we know that his future will not be equal to our present?
The Analects, Book IX, Chapter XXII, c. 479 BC
Translated by James Legge · Literature and scripture
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Confucius's instruction to respect the young was countercultural in a deeply hierarchical society where elders commanded deference as a default. His question — how do we know the young person's future won't surpass our present?

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