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To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken.
The Four Loves, 1960
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Lewis wrote The Four Loves in his sixties, after the loss of his wife Joy to cancer — the grief he later documented in A Grief Observed. He had arrived at love late in life and paid the price for it fully.

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