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Nelson Mandela on fatherhood, character, and how to live

9 sourced quotes from Nelson Mandela, each with the original work, the year, and links to a primary or scholarly source you can check yourself. Selected for what they say to a man raising children.

“Difficulties break some men but make others. No axe is sharp enough to cut the soul of a sinner who keeps on trying, one armed with the hope that he…”
Letter to Winnie Mandela, February 1, 1975, 1975
“A good pen can also remind us of the happiest moments in our lives, bring noble ideas into our dens, our blood and our souls. It can turn tragedy…”
Letter to Zindzi Mandela, February 10, 1980, 1980
“I have walked that long road to freedom. I have tried not to falter; I have made missteps along the way. But I have discovered the secret that after…”
Long Walk to Freedom, 1994
“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers…”
Long Walk to Freedom: The Autobiography of Nelson Mandela (1994), 1994
“You have a brave and determined mummy who loves her people with all her heart. She gave up pleasure and comfort in return for a life full of…”
Prison letter to daughters Zeni and Zindzi, June 23, 1969, 1969
“One day I will be back home to live in happiness with you until the end of my days.”
Prison letter to family, Robben Island, 1969, 1969
“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”
Speech at the "Lighting Your Way to a Better Future" launch, Johannesburg (July 16, 2003), 2003
“What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the…”
Speech at the 90th birthday celebration of Walter Sisulu, May 18, 2002, 2002
“Real leaders must be ready to sacrifice all for the freedom of their people.”
Speech at the Chief Albert Luthuli Centenary Celebrations, April 25, 1998, 1998

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Works quoted here: Letter to Winnie Mandela, February 1, 1975, Letter to Zindzi Mandela, February 10, 1980, Long Walk to Freedom, Long Walk to Freedom: The Autobiography of Nelson Mandela (1994), Prison letter to daughters Zeni and Zindzi, June 23, 1969, Prison letter to family, Robben Island, 1969, Speech at the "Lighting Your Way to a Better Future" launch, Johannesburg (July 16, 2003), Speech at the 90th birthday celebration of Walter Sisulu, May 18, 2002, Speech at the Chief Albert Luthuli Centenary Celebrations, April 25, 1998.